"Friends"

It's a great day to blog!

So here goes...
Is it just me? Or is it in my growing years I have developed a more refined taste in friends? Trim the fat, though I would love to trim the fat in other ways, but don't we all.
Finding out who your true friends are can sometimes hurt, I guess it's the sting of deception. 
We all have had or have that "friend" who drops us like a pile of crap on the side of the road.
Ex: let me call you to hangout and act like a friend while you drive.
Oh wait! Now I have a car and I do not need you anymore...
That was never a true friend, yet it is always hard to let go, even when you know it has all been fake, or they have done you wrong.
The worse part of all this: even when it was not your fault nor provoked, it makes you feel like there is something truly wrong with you. Which makes you run stupid scenarios in your head of what you could have done differently, or how you could have prevented all this. When in reality they are the ones with the problem not you.
It is human nature to find only our flaws, but why? Why must be always be so hard on ourselves? 
I propose a challenge for ourselves.
To try and stay positive, to be positive, to act positive. Mind, body and soul!
When life's Rollercoaster has us going though loops and turns we always try to find something positive, as small as it may be.
Hey they worse that can happen? 
Ok who is with me?! Let's try it out for 10 days.
Momma V.