Time

It's a great day to blog.
Sorry I haven't been writing, but life has been a bit hectic these past few months. Hope everyone had a great holiday, and now a great new year.
Time changes us all they say. But does time really change us? Or does our chosen paths in life change us? People will always debate questions like these. I guess it all comes down to, is if you are a good person or not, have you become a better person, or a person who likes to play childish games. We all mature differently,  but what happens when you revert?
Sometimes it's hard to be an adult. Yes, no one ever said it would be easy,  but shouldn't long term friendships be the easiest? Letting go of people is hard, deaths are hard but I believe cutting ties is much harder. At least with a death you know step by step why you had to say good bye, when cutting ties it feels like it just explodes and then you come to the conclusion that you must let this person go. This is when life likes to throw it all at you, but this is also when life shows you the people who really do have your best interest at heart.
As I get older I realize I can not take people like this anymore. I must cut ties with people like this, even if they are family, it hurts when you think how they have taken advantage of you, maybe for weeks, days or even years.  I say goodbye to you and goodbye to what I thought was a real relationship, I do wish the very best for you and in your many travels of life. Now it's time for my life to turn for the better, it's only uphill from here (well I hope), with the love and support of friends and family, I know I can achieve great things.