Summer life

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So ok I am so guilty of not keeping up with everything that is going on, I guess I have been putting it off since I switched over the the dark side of an iPhone. 

School has been over for a while now, but this summer has been on the low key. Been going to a couple classes but those are all done now and we are just waiting for the new school eat to start, which in my mind, can't come soon enough. Been helping my elderly parent out more so that has been taking up most of my time. Having my husband now officially working even a thought its part time, we still fee so blessed to have that in this economy. Best part is that everyone he works with are very nice and supportive. So summer had been a bit rough, kids are home 24/7 and helping my elderly parent 24/7 as well, sometimes I feel so alone.

So back to summer 😄, very exciting to be doing some back to school shopping and happy to announce I only need two more things and everything will be bought. I guess this year they will be sending out the back to school list, so I have to wait for that to come in and start shopping some more. I wish I could go back to school crazy but I know I don't need to. Also potty training my youngest has been going ok been rough but today I think we had a break through so wish us luck in the following days to come. How long does it take to officially potty train? People have been staying it takes a week? 

A couple weeks ago I had both parents home and it just felt like I had double the work load. Happy that everything is semi back to normal and soon school will start and our routine will go into place. Also happy that the sight words they have fun for this coming grade have been practiced almost all learned, always try and start ahead of the game. Toot toot <- see there, I was tooting my own horn. I crack myself up. Well that's all for now, and I promise I will try and write more. Stay sassy everyone and please share my blog. 

Momma -V 

Time

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Sorry I haven't been writing, but life has been a bit hectic these past few months. Hope everyone had a great holiday, and now a great new year.
Time changes us all they say. But does time really change us? Or does our chosen paths in life change us? People will always debate questions like these. I guess it all comes down to, is if you are a good person or not, have you become a better person, or a person who likes to play childish games. We all mature differently,  but what happens when you revert?
Sometimes it's hard to be an adult. Yes, no one ever said it would be easy,  but shouldn't long term friendships be the easiest? Letting go of people is hard, deaths are hard but I believe cutting ties is much harder. At least with a death you know step by step why you had to say good bye, when cutting ties it feels like it just explodes and then you come to the conclusion that you must let this person go. This is when life likes to throw it all at you, but this is also when life shows you the people who really do have your best interest at heart.
As I get older I realize I can not take people like this anymore. I must cut ties with people like this, even if they are family, it hurts when you think how they have taken advantage of you, maybe for weeks, days or even years.  I say goodbye to you and goodbye to what I thought was a real relationship, I do wish the very best for you and in your many travels of life. Now it's time for my life to turn for the better, it's only uphill from here (well I hope), with the love and support of friends and family, I know I can achieve great things.

Love???

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I know it's been a while, but since school has officially started I have had to start a new routine 😄, finally think I have it down.
This blog is about complicated love, a love that has so many twists and turns it would make a roller coaster jealous.
Can you be with a person who pushes you away and then reels you back in? Yes no relationship is perfect and they all have ups and downs, but can we really live with not just the ups and downs but twists and turns? I guess some of us have more guts than others... but what do you do when there isn't an easy way out? You are completely in love with this person and can never see yourself not having them on your life. 
Being called names is not fun, feeling like your opinion doesn't matter is the worse, how do you change for the better when your other half is just looking out for him or herself? 
No Angels here ... it takes two, as they say. Respect is key, when one loses that, the other partner is left to feel so so alone.
I guess living life the way you can is the key, happiness and true love is in the eye of the beholder. One day everyone will get their fairytale, or not so much.

"Friends"

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So here goes...
Is it just me? Or is it in my growing years I have developed a more refined taste in friends? Trim the fat, though I would love to trim the fat in other ways, but don't we all.
Finding out who your true friends are can sometimes hurt, I guess it's the sting of deception. 
We all have had or have that "friend" who drops us like a pile of crap on the side of the road.
Ex: let me call you to hangout and act like a friend while you drive.
Oh wait! Now I have a car and I do not need you anymore...
That was never a true friend, yet it is always hard to let go, even when you know it has all been fake, or they have done you wrong.
The worse part of all this: even when it was not your fault nor provoked, it makes you feel like there is something truly wrong with you. Which makes you run stupid scenarios in your head of what you could have done differently, or how you could have prevented all this. When in reality they are the ones with the problem not you.
It is human nature to find only our flaws, but why? Why must be always be so hard on ourselves? 
I propose a challenge for ourselves.
To try and stay positive, to be positive, to act positive. Mind, body and soul!
When life's Rollercoaster has us going though loops and turns we always try to find something positive, as small as it may be.
Hey they worse that can happen? 
Ok who is with me?! Let's try it out for 10 days.
Momma V.

New chapter

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A new school year is upon us. Some are just starting, some are finishing,  and some are starting new with their own children.
Whatever you may be doing, I hope this school year is a wonderful one.
As for my little family, we are starting new. I guess it's a big a event, it's the start of our child's academic career. I would like my child to start on the right foot. I will try my hardest to make that happen. I am scared of this new chapter, I am not very good anymore at meeting new people, I do not trust easily anymore. I blame my children for all this, since the moment I had my babies I have become this over protective, afraid of world women... I have tried many times to just break out of this, but I just send myself into a full blow panic attack... This new me sometimes drives my husband crazy, he says I use to be so free and open. Can you blame me? Yes it is so stupid to be afraid of the world, no matter what there will always be bad people.
It's a work in progress I guess.
I have also recently learned, I am not a very good team mom, my oldest was in a summer sport, and at the end they would play against eachother. My child was not the best and I wanted to yell and tell my child what to do... yeah I get way to competitive,oops hahhaha.
Anyhow back to school talk,
is it just me or, does every parent like to buy new supplies? It takes me back to when I was in school, I use to love opening up new supplies, or taking the stickers off of new things. OK let's be honest, I STILL DO!
OK so school hasn't even started and I am already worrier about making mommy friends. I hope I can make all those cute lunches I have been pinning too. Mind over matter, right?!
Have a wonderful school year everyone.

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Tryal by fyre. Go follow them!
Please keep reading my little blog, and thank you for all your support. Share share share ❤
Momma V

It starts

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OK so here goes, to all the mommies that have experienced LABOR...
I feel for the c-section mommas, they get split open plus bleed for 40 days! DAMN! Well I was lucky enough to have my babies vaginally, but an episiotomy isn't fun either. My active labor was fairly easy but  painful, duhhhh it's called LABOR for a reason. I find it very funny when I hear women say they never imagines it would hurt... 😨😲really... really... damn ladies, what did you think it would feel like? I am always so surprised when I hear these conversations, who have they been talking to? What is that saying "hope for the best, but expect the worse"? Something like that.
Have you guys ever seem, "what to expect when you're expecting"?  Well if you have, remember the part that she has to speak at the baby expo, well yes most of that is all true.
I have herd some horror stories about labor too, and wow these ladies are so strong.
I herd some ladies are left with not so fun side effects, like they pee when they sneeze or laugh or do anything heavy? That your feet sometimes grow a half a size to a size . OK see that one I was left with, so I have to buy the whole size instead of the the half .
Recently we watched a documentary and I could not even finish watching it. I had to get up and leave the room, I was in tears. How can a mother keep getting high while pregnant,  those poor babies suffer so much, they are in so much pain. It was just heart breaking, but people will do what they want to do. No one is perfect.
A happy baby is worth all the pain

   Momma -V

My boy

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Well I have a toddler boy, and I must say I am completely and utterly in love with him. I never knew I could love a little boy so much, he completes our little family, even thought he sometimes bugs his sister 😄
We do have a large extended family, we let both our children play with whatever toy they want, rather it be a "boy" toy or a "girl" toy. Our daughter of course has baby dolls, and one day he grabbed one and started cuddling it and calling it his baby. So from then on we let him play with it and his sister was so kind that she actually said he could have it ❤
We have gone on family outing where he takes his baby with him. We get the weirdest looks ever, especially from men, the worst one was the younger gentleman was disgusted that we allowed our son to go out with a girls toy... my jaw dropped and I honestly didn't know what to say, which is weird. Of course once I got to my car I had a great come back. I never have told my husband about this incident, for the fear of him going crazy. When we are with family Why is it so bad? What will a girl toy do to him? He mirrors what he sees. We are very hands one parents and show our kids that we love them but hugging and kissing them. No matter what my children grow up to be I will always love them. I greatest fear for them is that they will struggle, I never want my children to struggle to be who they are. God has blessed me with two beautiful children <- yes I went there. 
Love your kids, hug and kiss them whenever you can ❤ teach them to be accepting of others. Start them off young.
-Momma V