Friday, July 29, 2016

Summer life

It's a great day to blog. 

So ok I am so guilty of not keeping up with everything that is going on, I guess I have been putting it off since I switched over the the dark side of an iPhone. 
School has been over for a while now, but this summer has been on the low key. Been going to a couple classes but those are all done now and we are just waiting for the new school eat to start, which in my mind, can't come soon enough. Been helping my elderly parent out more so that has been taking up most of my time. Having my husband now officially working even a thought its part time, we still fee so blessed to have that in this economy. Best part is that everyone he works with are very nice and supportive. So summer had been a bit rough, kids are home 24/7 and helping my elderly parent 24/7 as well, sometimes I feel so alone.
So back to summer 😄, very exciting to be doing some back to school shopping and happy to announce I only need two more things and everything will be bought. I guess this year they will be sending out the back to school list, so I have to wait for that to come in and start shopping some more. I wish I could go back to school crazy but I know I don't need to. Also potty training my youngest has been going ok been rough but today I think we had a break through so wish us luck in the following days to come. How long does it take to officially potty train? People have been staying it takes a week? 
A couple weeks ago I had both parents home and it just felt like I had double the work load. Happy that everything is semi back to normal and soon school will start and our routine will go into place. Also happy that the sight words they have fun for this coming grade have been practiced almost all learned, always try and start ahead of the game. Toot toot <- see there, I was tooting my own horn. I crack myself up. Well that's all for now, and I promise I will try and write more. Stay sassy everyone and please share my blog. 
Momma -V 

Sunday, January 17, 2016

Time

It's a great day to blog.
Sorry I haven't been writing, but life has been a bit hectic these past few months. Hope everyone had a great holiday, and now a great new year.
Time changes us all they say. But does time really change us? Or does our chosen paths in life change us? People will always debate questions like these. I guess it all comes down to, is if you are a good person or not, have you become a better person, or a person who likes to play childish games. We all mature differently,  but what happens when you revert?
Sometimes it's hard to be an adult. Yes, no one ever said it would be easy,  but shouldn't long term friendships be the easiest? Letting go of people is hard, deaths are hard but I believe cutting ties is much harder. At least with a death you know step by step why you had to say good bye, when cutting ties it feels like it just explodes and then you come to the conclusion that you must let this person go. This is when life likes to throw it all at you, but this is also when life shows you the people who really do have your best interest at heart.
As I get older I realize I can not take people like this anymore. I must cut ties with people like this, even if they are family, it hurts when you think how they have taken advantage of you, maybe for weeks, days or even years.  I say goodbye to you and goodbye to what I thought was a real relationship, I do wish the very best for you and in your many travels of life. Now it's time for my life to turn for the better, it's only uphill from here (well I hope), with the love and support of friends and family, I know I can achieve great things.